Even if you’re not the primary family caregiver for the aging adult in your life, you might want to help out when and how you can. It’s a good idea to have an understanding of what you can do that really does help. Some of these ideas might help you to formulate a plan that works for your situation.
Tackle Some Chores.
There’s always something that needs to be done. If you have already observed the primary caregiver in your life, then you already know that fact. Jump in and handle a chore or two. Wash the dishes or run the vacuum. Maybe that’s not fully what that person needs right then in terms of help, but it definitely takes something off the running chore list.
Lend an Ear.
Caregiving is incredibly lonely at times. Your caregiving friend or relative may need someone to just listen now and again. Be that shoulder that they can lean on when they need someone. You can leave it at an open invitation, but it’s also a good idea to check in now and again and ask the caregiver in your life how they’re doing.
Do Some Research.
If you’re helping out, it gives you a huge head start if you do a bit of research. Learn as much as you can about caregiving and about the care recipient’s health concerns. That will help you to support everyone involved in the best ways that you possibly can. You don’t have to know everything. Just having a basic understanding of the challenges and the situation helps a lot.
Ask What You Can Do.
At some point, ask what you can do. Some caregivers find it difficult to ask for or to accept help, so be specific. Either ask if you can help with a particular task or make your offer as specific as possible. Instead of asking something like, “Let me know if there’s ever anything I can do,” drill down a bit. “What chores need to be done today?” is a specific question that can get the caregiver thinking about what would be helpful right now.
Whether you’re a backup caregiver for the primary caregiver or you’re just a friend who cares, there’s so much that you can do to help out on this caregiving journey. Sometimes just being there is so much more powerful than you might realize. Any other help that you can provide is a welcomed bonus that goes a very long way.
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